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She served the elderly, sick, and dying for 2 years, and wrote to her sister about how much she loved helping people in any way she could.
Then she gets back and she finds her true love, several years later she gets married and has her first kid, then her third, and her fourth, and last but not least her fith. When she has her second her husband punched her in the stomach and it caused it to be a “miscarriage”.
She then disowns her sister (who was at the time having a very awful divorce) and says that if she EVER has contact with her or her family she will have the authoritys involved.
Later, she has her mother (age 67) take care of her kids (age 2, 6, 11, and 13) until she also decides to disown her as well.
After that she moved to California to have a good vacation with her family, and she decides to screw over her sister by talking behind her back, and her grandmother gives the “trust” which had approximately 3.5 million dollars in it to her.
She then gets really sick and tries to commit suicide but doesn’t succeed. She moves to Michigan into a house with black mold in pretty much every room, and her youngest kid has asthma which could potentially kill him.
Then she trys for Mother of Michigan and gets second or first and nobody will ever find out her horrible past.
http://www.utahmothers.org/nadine-milham/
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She has affairs with other men.
She can’t stop drinking, and if she does she starts to shake.
She fostered a couple of kids while she was in at her original house in Utah.
She was also Mother of Utah and had a variety of different fake accomplishments.
She claims to have helped her grandmothers (both) until they passed away (which is definitely not true because thats what her mother and sister did during the summer).
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Sorry this was quite long but nobody knows how horrible my aunt truly is and I just wanted a couple of opinions of what others would think of her. Thank you in advance to anyone that comments on this post it means the world to me :)
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Got a 20% chance of rain forecast yesterday. Got hit by a t-storm that almost knocked out more tree.This is why I watch animals and not a weather channel.Feeling too worn out to do much today, sorry.
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Hiya My internet is changing today and I'm not sure how long the switch over will take, I'm hoping 24 hours at the most, but I'm probably being too optimistic We are changing to another company and going full fibre for the internet. But at least it's changing to the one payment rather than the payment for the home landline phone and a payment for the internet. So I'm not going to be on here...
Sooo.... Yeah, I am pretty much a rotten person to ask, as I've stayed away from my dad's family for, oh, 20-plus years, and glad to do so. My dad was an abusive and often-nasty person, and his family was often worse. AlAnon's thing about "love from a safe distance" became, for me, "reallly grateful to be far away b/c they're not at all loving in general and love ain't happening from that gene pool". I've a couple dozen cousins via my dad's siblings, and we don't talk to each other, parents, you name it. We got away and we've stayed away. Breaking the cycle, in some cases. In some others, no.
So, as I said, I'm not a great person to ask or advise. I was raised to believe blood family was *everything*. I betrayed that. Till my dad's siblings are all as dead as my dad, I won't really feel "safe".
But it's hard. Hard to see family you love and see it disintegrating. Supportive vibes.
It is a vicious, multi-generational cycle in my own bloodline. Fortified geological distances have given my own branch of the family tree (no daughters) some changes in the cycle, but the cycle goes on. I am sorry beyond words that you are caught in it, too. Healing hopes for all. No exceptions.
May the circle one day be broken
Of violence, hatred and shame
A better home could be awaiting
If we join hands in healing hopes
Just hoping. . .
Even reading other people's posts, I could bang my head against the wall in a split between feeling how broken someone is, and how much damage they in turn do. Heartbreaking all around.
So just me, but I sort of leave it to fate/the world/god/nature/natural consequences/people smarter than me/whatever...to figure out. Because I'm sure never going to.
Oh don't get me wrong. Sometimes I still bang my head against the wall trying to figure it out. Sometimes I even wonder if I've grabbed a bloody shard of wisdom...
Heartfelt hugs to you as you sort it out within your family, Patti