So about two weeks ago the restaurant I work at got two transfer cooks from another state to help us train a bunch of new employees. One of them started hooking up with one of my good friends that also works at the same restaurant.

One night we went to my friends house after grabbing a few drinks and the guy started getting kinda handsy with me. (I'm a lesbian so it was not reciprocated at all...) I shrugged him off but later that night he said he wanted to watch me and my friend hook up. I told him no and so did she. He started grabbing at my legs and so I got up and left my friends house. She asked why I left so abruptly and I just told her I was tired and had to go home.

Over the weekend it was 4/20. I don't smoke but I don't have a problem with people who do. The guy asked if he could smoke in my car and I said absolutely not. He didn't like that answer and he grabbed me by the back of my neck which is a HUGE trigger for me. I started to shut down at work and my friend noticed and asked me about it and at first I was hesitant to say anything. I didn't wanna ruin the relationship between the two of them. I eventually gave in and told her and she was pissed at him. 

Him and the other cook are going back to their home state in a week but that's 5 shifts I have to work with him and now I'm terrified to be around him. I literally can't function normally when I know he's there. I don't wanna get him in trouble. I'm so conflicted.