My personality changed so much today too, I am scared!! I have been having about intense constant flashbacks for the past 3 days, I think that is contributing to that. But boy is it scary. Why dont you talk to ur psychiatrist if you have one?

I agree with littlered - you should have it checked out by a doctor. Good luck.

I don't understand it either but when something is really nice and touches your heart all the sudden it is like "Wtf are you doing you liars". If you do choose to go and ask your dr about it could you please post the reasoning for that?

I'm not trained in psychology or counseling, but my guess would be that this comes down to a trust issue. Those of us who have been betrayed by people who stroked us with soothing words have a deep memory of that experience.

Whenever people act friendly toward me, I'm suspicious of their motives. I've had a lot of bad experiences where people befriended me and pumped me for personal information, then spread it all over the place as gossip. That's the way a lot of people operate, they work to gain your trust and then take advantage of things to benefit themselves.

I tend to shift into defensive mode when people act in a friendly way. i guess I've just had too many bad experiences. Maybe that's what these personality shifts are about...a defense mechanism. I've read that DID is a way of defending ourselves that traumatized people develop.