I have this condition.  My husband put is in dept 70,000.  He was addicted to a stripper while I was getting my masters degree.  He went for help but I will never trust him again.  When he goes out at night, I have panic attacks.  I am in dept with him and my kids have college loans and I am so scared.  There is no marriage left, he impotent due to diabetes and I don't care what he does as long as he stays away from me.  Last night he turned off find my iphone after I called him and said why the fuck are you where you are?  He was over an hour away and he turned off his phone so I couldn't contact him.  Financially he has to stay but I want nothing to do with him ever again.  I hate him.  My panic attacks are looking at my bank account to make sure he isn't stealing from me again.  I have hidden all my jewelry.  I hate my life!  :(  It is like a nightmare that never ends!  :(  If you know the circle of abuse he has done every part to me!  Physical, Finanial, Emotional, and Verbal!  He is the scum of the earth!