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unlivedlife 04/29/2012

I am still being harrassed by a members wife on here. This goes back to my last post of jack59 acting like this is a dating site. I am sure he is on here under another name for the 100th time. When I am resoponding on the boardI have no idea whom I am talking to. I recieved a message from his wife Lisa to leave him and his brother alone along with leaving the women on here alone. You know what you guys act like this is high school and are not even using the site for what it is. But harrassing me will stop Lisa along with the rest of your family. It is real simple does not take much brain cells so here we go I have the same screen name on here that I had when I signed up so you know who I am. Lisa you and your husband Jack and brother continue to change your names. So you know who I am so stay the hell away from me because I have had all the messages that I want from you LISA. Get a life and stay out of mine. Sorry for the other members that have to continue to read this I have turned them in.

deleted_user 04/29/2012

Please consider not only reporting and ignoring the abusive members, but also check your settings and edit to "only friends" as being able to message you- if you have not adjusted this setting as of yet. Many hugs and I hope you get some peace from this mess soon!

unlivedlife 04/29/2012

Thank you...I do not want to leave thi site but i may have too..This kinda stuff is so childish.

deleted_user 04/29/2012

Don't leave because of they are doing. Take a break if you need to- perhaps. The people change here often, even when this crap happens, but the important thing here is that this site IS for support. If it works for you, use it and know you do have the same rights as everyone else. Always remember that you can set the parameters and when possible, protect yourself as much as you are able- because aside from all the crap, there honestly are some very good people here.

I had some trouble awhile ago with someone who started asking questions about my private life. A few account changes and now I choose who I add as a friend, as well as who can message me. I post when I want to and what I want. That is it.

Put yourself first -no matter what. It isn't a flawless system, but it is nice to have the option to ignore, un-friend and delete the occasional scum from your life all the same. Take care, always and know if you do need help, it is here.

unlivedlife 04/29/2012

Thank you .....I plan on staying I just wish people would use this site for what it is intended for.

deleted_user 04/29/2012

Me too.... gentle hugs and take good care of yourself.

unlivedlife 04/29/2012

Thank you very much......

bluedragon41 04/30/2012

Hmm, this one fellow really wanted to talk to me, even though we don't have that much in common.
...Then when I mentioned my wife he bowed out rather fast.
I have now noted I am married on my profile.

I agree, take your profile private if this sort of drama thingy bothers you...
Myself, I'd be more inclined to wind them all up into hysterics.

...I'm generally a nice person, but if his wife's chasing him around the internet with a metaphoric rolling pin to keep him from hitting on women...that ain't healthy.
It ain't gonna keep him in line either, you can't stop a cheater from cheating.

unlivedlife 04/30/2012

You are right and for god sake if you read my post on here you would see I am not dating material. He just has a problem and he needs to do something about it. The first thing is to leave me alone and use this site as it is suppose to be used. Thanks for your support.

alive47 05/01/2012

I dislike People who can't leave You alone. I am on Here for Help also. I pray that they get the Message because it Hurts all of Us when Someone is Hurting.

unlivedlife 05/01/2012

Thank you Alive47 I appreciate the concern.

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