On top of my diagnosis last month of PTSD I found out one of my best friends has oral cancer. I went to visit Harman last night. It's bad. The tumor has grown quickly. His girlfriend and me spoke alone for a while, he only has a 1 in 3 chance of beating this.

I am devastated. Harman is one of the nicest, supportive people I know. When my husband choked me, he offered me a place to stay and a vehicle if I needed it. I told him about the PTSD, and he treated me in the same kind, friendly way as always. His girlfriend is just as supportive. Never any judgement or jealousy. I am blessed to have them.

Now I ask just one favor from my friends here. Please pray to whichever God you believe for Harman. I want him to be that 33rd person that beats this. I cried all the way home from his house last night. Your prayers would be a great comfort for me. Thanks.