I live alone, I hate drama so much. It means I can only afford a tiny run down apartment (that just had messy plumbing problems that I posted about here). But better have my kitchen ceiling cave in from flooding in the bathroom of the apartment upstairs than have to deal with folks acting out when I'm trying to manage my own self. You mention moving here, so I wonder if you're going to be getting your own drama free place next, toughassteele.

I wish I could afford my own place. But I don't have enough hours my pay is great but with the hours bring like 5 a day it's hard. Plus I have child support taken out. So I'm stuck. I'm also stuck in a emotional and physical and abusive relationship

I don't know what to do. I'm feeling lost today and alone. Im shaking and upset. About to flip.

Steele, the living situation with the drama of an addict is so not good. Like Muji, I choose to live alone, except for my two cats. If my health worsens, I may lose that option. No way should she have allowed her daughter to move in. Hopefully she will figure this out quickly and things can go back to where they were. Hang in there, and maybe get some earplugs. Calming and comforting hugs.

I'm trying really but it's hard. I had a break down. I'm going to my cousin's house for the weekend I can't do it.

Hugs to you both and thank you

You're welcome, Toughassteele, and thanks back to you for letting us know you went to your cousin's place when it all got to be too much to handle. Hope you get some rest over the weekend to start fresh. We're with you.

Thank you well my cousin bailed on me. My friends daughter started some shit with me and treated to hit me. I can't stand life anymore. Really thinking about killing my self. I got told I'm a dead beat mom and my life sucks because i signed my kids over and I'm a loser. I'm tired of everything.

Yikes--the cousin's not a resource this weekend after all. Ouch. Hope you can stay safe on not get hit. I had that happen the last time I visited my elderly father, who , though I hoped for better, hit me in his old age just like he always had. I had no place to go that time, either.

It's tiring to be abused again and again. If you can, please know that just speaking for myself, in times like that I put my focus on figuring out how that abuse can end without having my whole life end. I know it may sound naive, but in my case so far I have to admit it has worked when I came to the end of my wits about it all. Maybe it could work for you, too?