.... I had added a note on my Better Business Bureau complaint that the owner had ran after my ex-dance instructor. The BBB had added that to my complaint than removed it. Felt upset; I check the link to my complaint when I feel triggered. (Triggered because my new dance group had an event at the studio last week). Looked up who the contact for the business was; the owner! The woman that ran after my ex- dance instructor after I was hurt lied to me that she was the owner and also lied that another male dance instructor "had moved to Pennsylvania." I never even flirted with that guy or anything!! 

This was incredibly bullying and ridiculous. I understand protecting yourself from someone "creepy," but my ex dance instructor is a male black belt. These people are monsters for publicly kicking my vagina from behind at the front door; their only concern is that I go away and don't bother them. I was stupid to think I could occasionally go to dance parties after he humiliated me by very publicly refusing to ever teach me to dance again; obviously, I was so creepy for leaning forward a little and making too much eye contact while learning the tango that I was a criminal. I was trying to learn to dance more appropriately and to have a better party.  But the real reason I was kicked, three months after any interaction with my attacker? I talked to a female dance instructor at a bookstore. I said hi, she invited me to the showcase and I said bye and left. I can only think that she saw me with my son and thought maybe since I danced inappropriately and also had a child, that the next time I went to a dance party I should be taught a lesson or something. 

I can sympathize with someone trying to run a business or feeling uncomfortable with a dance partner, but they went way too far. I realized how awful they were when I started meeting new dance teachers. It wasn't all my fault.