It’s really hard only blaming my ex dance teacher who assaulted me and not also being angry at his dance studio, who didn’t fire him. I was getting over it. I’d joined a new dance group, finished therapy, made new friends. My husband has a favorite bar where he is a “VIP.” He’s helped run a charity event there for three years. So, of course, the dance partner of my ex dance teacher chooses to open a new dance studio right upstairs after my old dance studio closed. There’s not enough evidence to say she’s an accessory to assault, but I don’t want to see her. I wrote an email to the bar saying that I was uncomfortable with the proximity. The bar was supportive, but really there’s nothing I can do. The owner “accepted” (after I messaged the bar) a years old message I had sent her after a nightmare, and I’d immediately apologized, but I do think the assault was horrible and the studio handled it poorly. Then, I find out my new dance group is becoming heavily involved there. Then, I find out one of my friends and dance teacher is dating someone from the dance studio’s brother. Then, more people I remember and don’t want to see are coming on Mondays.
So, she was fully aware I’m uncomfortable around her and we were members at this bar first. Being a member means going to culinary events. So, she was there tonight. I now know that no one from the studio cares about my feelings, or if being publicly assaulted was traumatic. I wish I could move to a different city. I guess they aren’t trying to hurt me directly and the only one responsible is my ex-dance teacher, but there is no sensitivity to my feelings, no respect, or response to my business complaint when I could have pressed charges. I have even less respect for this person now.
Hello all, Received good news on yesterday. Attended class today and know back to feeling overwhelmed about the work that is due. Can someone help me understand the point of good stress and bad stress again? I know somehow there should be a balance. When you all find your balance could you please let me know. smh
Things never work out how we expect :-(I go to a man for holistic therapy who has listened to me and given me treatment for health problems. These health problems have been caused by PTSD, because I've had six crimes. 4 of these were people in a position of authority purposely attacking me (in education and healthcare). This is awful abuse that happens behind closed doors that no one else sees...