If it is at work than that would be consider sexual harassment and you could go to your boss or write a letter to your boss. If not than you may have to address it directly maybe just by saying it make me feel uncomfortable talking about this and you don't have to give a reason why but I think you need to address your comfort level so it doesn't keep happening. Sorry you were put in that situation and you felt uncomfortable. I wish you luck. Gentle support while you figure out what's right for you in this situation. Hugs.

Hum...they really should not be talking about sex, sex toys and the details at work, it is not appropriate workplace behavior. You do have grounds to complain about it, however, I would be very careful if you go that route. My experience has been the law might be there to protect you, but you cannot prove it and the company will lie. You may end up losing your job. Companies do not want people they consider "trouble makers" or "high maintenance".

I don't think you have anything to be embarrassed about. The subject made you uncomfortable and you left. My only advice would have been to leave sooner, so you did not get triggered. I got triggered the other day watching a movie, I did not leave either because I wanted to be part of the group. I paid the price for staying and when I told my therapist she told me if it makes you uncomfortable, tense or triggers you LEAVE immediately. She also told me to stop watch that kind of movie since I know it will trigger me. Walk away from your triggers and apologize to no one. Hold your head up and don't be embarrassed, you are looking after you and that is never wrong!!

I am glad the grounding worked for you. You should be proud of yourself for going outside and grounding yourself. Way to go!

im sorry i have been there i had to leave like you i lied , maby just said ya i bothered me but that not why i left , they should try another subject if you need to run its ok hugs your a giving person at least you have morals yes cc is rigth you should be proud of yourself hugs min

That's a Not Safe For Work conversation!

...I have an exceedingly bawdy sense of humor, but I work to keep it G-rated on the job, because I don't want to squick out coworkers.

I'm really sorry they thought that was ok. It wasn't!

Well, they should not be talking about those things in the first place. You don't have to be embarrassed that if bothers you. They sounds like creeps. Can you report them?

It sounds like you did the right thing. Sex triggers me to. That happened to me where I work. They were talking about sex and watching sex movies at work. I got up and walked out. The flashbacks over and over and over again. I wanted to go curl up in a ball someplace dark and small. Rape happens to guys to. I lost count of the times. A few days later I was very PISSED and I went to the manager and told her if it happens again I would got to HR and get it stopped. After that it stopped. Talk to someone and get it stopped. Hell tell the cops! It's against the law. I;v got to go I can't see for the tears. HUGS

So now you know that THEY were the odd ones. I know it happens, but I, too, think it's not fit for lunch at work!

That's why I eat by myself.

I would have reacted just like you did. It's inappropriate!