They say match is a good one.
dating is a no, no for me.......The triggers i get from romantic liaisons are dangerous.

Instead of dating sites (I don't trust them), why not try volunteering in your community? Or join a group that involves something you like. Or just take up an outdoor sport. I can't believe how many men talk to me while fishing. You just need to look for ways to get out in your community. If you are going to use a site please be careful. And avoid Craiglist. It may be tempting because it is free but that also makes it attractive to not so nice people. I know were you live it can be a bit hard to meet people without an addiction or other serious problem (I grew up in eastern PA coal fields). Best thing is to set limits for yourself as far as what is acceptable. Don't sell yourself short just because you are lonely. I have done it and wish I wouldn't have.