Hi everyone. I'm new to this. I'm 27 years old. I was diagnosed with PCOS at age 21 when my husband and I first tried getting pregnant. I've had irregular periods since my period first started but every doctor told me that it was normal. Once I got older and wanted to get pregnant, I went in and was told that I "probably have PCOS, and I should lose some weight." I was 150 at the time. What he didn't tell me is what PCOS meant and how hard it would be to lose weight. I had to figure it out on my own. Once we moved to a new state, my new doctor put me on Metformin and explained to me what PCOS is and actually diagnosed me. Still no explanation on how I got it but atleast it made more sense. We've been through many trails to get pregnant but nothing is working. We've tried clomid a few times, letrozole, The shot. We got pregnant after we stopped trying to get help from doctors, but it ended in a early miscarriage. Now we're starting to think about trying ivf. I'm scared and so is he. At this point, I think we're both just afraid to have another miscarriage but also not too sure that it'll work because of how much we have been disappointed before. Idk what else to do. I'm so tired and afraid that I haven't even called my doctor back to follow up on the ivf conversation.