I think each doctor makes their own requirments! I know some of the ladies on here aren't married and some are younger and still get treatment with Clomid and such! My doctor won't do Clomid/ Femera treatments unless you are married and have tired for atleast a year getting pregnant! So basically you have to be married for one year before he starts treatment. He requires that you be 19 before starting too! But like I said I really think its up to the doctor.

that pisses me off. i dont think that they should get to pick whether or not you have a baby....ugh

That is messed up! There are girls waaaay younger than me who are not married and pop kids out like pez candies....girls that don't need kids. But like I said I have a good job...I'm an account representative at a debt collection agency and my bf is a master logger. We both have our own vehicles and a place to live...so I don't see why somebody would turn us down....all we want is a family. If I can't get on clomid, I would probably just try Metformin. Do I have to go to a gyno to get clomid or can I get it from my primary care giver???? Cause my reg doctor is awesome but my gyno is kind of butt. I told her I wanted a baby at my checkup post m/c and she acted like my therapist....telling me not to worry about it and go to college or something.

I can understand wanting a family at any age and I would like to think that I am supportive to a person of any age who wants a kid (I am 25 and have been trying for two years).
There are people I know that are young and great parents, they do tend to have more stress due to monetary situations and occasionally the relationship issue that come with a child. So as long as you are both committed to making the relationship work and you both want a child then I wish you the best of Luck.

To get started I would recommend finding a fertility specialist (do you research they should have an informative website and stats for IVF - there are many people who get stuck going to a dr that isn't helpful and wasting time on methods that may not be working)
The fertility specialist will likely want to confirm your PCOS and create a plan for you that will likely be clomid for 3-6 months and if that doesn't work then moving on to others like femara or injectibles.
The should have you come in for an initial appointment at the beginning of your cycle then day 12 and everyother day until you ovulate.

They will probably want to test your BF's count as well.

Lastly most specialists have the requirement that you have been trying on your own and off BC for at least a year before they assist you.

Good Luck!

That's great! Right now I have insurance, but it won't pay for any of that cause it's a free insurance that I got while I was pregnant and the only reason I qualified for it was because I was pregnant so they are about to end it soon. I should be getting insurance thru my job starting the first of July and it will be Blue Cross/ Blue Shield which is a great insurance. It just hurts my feelings that my gyno won't do anything for me and suggests b.c. everytime I visit with her. I know they have the "preventing unwanted babies" policy that they try to stick to. But obviously, if I'm willing to try all these things...the baby will be far from unwanted. My bf's bday was Saturday and I told him I didn't know what to get him...he said what I really wanted was to know the sex of our child ( which I would have been far enough along by now to know ) and that just hurt my feelings. He wants to start a family sooo bad. And his family keeps mistaking our reason for not having a child by now...with oh your girlfriend does not want children. Then when I did get pregnant and lost it...the first person I told in his family was his female cousin and she looked at me and said "What did you do to it?"....and that also made me feel bad. They don't understand what I've been through. But I'm hoping something will work out soon and I will be able to have my child.