Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD) Support Group
Polycystic kidney disease (PKD) is a progressive, genetic disorder of the kidneys. It occurs in humans and other organisms. PKD is characterised by the presence of multiple cysts (polycystic) in both kidneys. The disease can also damage the liver, pancreas and rarely the heart and brain.
Welcome to the group. Whilst I have no experience of IVF or PGD, I have had two children (I was diagnosed after having them; no family history). What I can tell you is that pregnancy led to an increase in my abdominal girth and I now know that this was probably because it made my liver grow. My liver is full of cysts and is huge. Oestrogen is implicated in liver cyst formation, and pregnancy increases oestrogen levels. This doesn't happen to everyone, but it's a risk, so just be aware.
My BP was normal throughout pregnancy, but with a starting point of high BP you are likely to have problems with this.
You might like to read this from this site a few years ago:
https://www.dailystrength.org/group/polycystic-kidney-disease-pkd/discussion/pkd-and-fertility-treatments
Good luck.
What a tough dilemma. I and most of my friends had our first babies between 36 and 43. I only had one, Most of my friends had 2, a couple had 3 and 4. One friend had her last 'surprise' baby at 46, healthy, happy and whole.
That bp issue is concerning though, isn't it? Since you are the queen of research check out pomegranate juice and tumric's effect on bp. You should see if you can lower that without meds.
In regard to your dilemma:
Here is something to think on.
Unknown to me, or any of my 5 siblings until I got diagnosed with PKD in my 50s, we all have the PKD gene but none of my 5 siblings have PKD, Neither of my parents had it, my Mom is 96, living independently, my Dad died of Alzheimer's at 73. We suspect that my Dad's sister may have had it as she died of a brain aneurysm at 39 but none of his 4 other siblings had it, One of my sisters did the genealogy for both sides of our family and there are very few early deaths going back to the 1400s.
So just because your baby may have the gene doesn't mean that it will develop PKD.
I personally think I triggered the gene in my body by too much Toradol, aka Ketorolac Tromethamine, a non-narcotic very strong pain med and one of the side effects is cyst development.
Research epigenetics for more info on active versus inactive genes.
In the meantime, live well, laugh a lot, and have fun!
https://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/polycystic-kidney-disease