Hi. I've been struggling with trying to stay positive with the seasonal demands and had been doing fairly well, however my H has been especially pricky and I feel all joy drained out of me. It is typical for him to be extra assholey when special, 'happy' times come up ( should I be used to it ? ) but I guess I continue to hold out hope that he'll manage to behave as a healthy minded person instead of like a childish jerk. I still have presents to wrap for 7 yr old gdgt. who lives with us so I have to find the energy to function physically and emotionally.......... but God, I'm tired and I'm so sick of him and his crap.
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