After doing so well at keeping NC since last time, going on 5 months and well, almost 6 months if I would of made it this month, I slipped up.
Not sure if it was me missing my Mother, her birthday was May 1st and then I had Mother's day or just isolating too much but it's done.
It happened when I was talking to a mutual friend (yeah that's my first mistake, keeping a mutual friend on facebook) and asking him if the ex still had his commercial mower that he no longer needed as my dad is getting back surgery and needs a better mower for all the acreage he has to mow?
I did not ask the friend to have the ex call me, I asked him to have the ex call my father and gave him the number.
Of course, he didn't do that. The ex called me and left a voicemail saying he did have it, he would give my dad a heck of deal and to please call him. He was not sure what happened to us (yeah right) and it was probably him (ya think) and telling me to just let it be, whatever it was, to just let it be and call him please. I didn't.
Then he tried again, the following week, I didn't answer. He left a vm, why didn't I ever answer my phone. Please call him, and he will just try again.
I didn't call back that time either.
Then later on , which was this Wed, he texted me (again I did not reply) and it was a photo of me ( a risqu one in which I now regret sending him) with the words "Your so hot in the picture Yummy"
To not respond to that, took all I had as it shocked me and angered me.
Anyway, I messed up by talking to his male friend on FB and the friend said he thought this ex (who is supposedly his best friend was a great guy as a friend but didn't know what he wanted as far as being a boyfriend)
I agreed and thought I could let it go at that.
Then I get a message from the friend saying "Hey how about we blow off some steam and I will buy and we go to Roxys (a strip club) and all the girls will be climbing all over you and I can get in on the action..lol

I was beyond pissed.
Sooo, I texted the ex finally, wondering if he put this friend up to that and feeling rather defensive and double crossed.
My text:
I wish you would delete that photo. And just so you know, just because I am upset with you does not mean I would hang out with any of your male friends. Give me some credit. Take care.

I never received a reply.

This angered me as he had been the one to initiate contact and now he was going to ignore?
I then texted: This is why I don't call or text. No reply. I am out for the day.

Nothing.

Finally hours later, my final text. I will get your things back to you. Perhaps I can have my sis in law drop them off on her way to the city Friday. All your friends are not talking to me either so that's all I know to do. (his female friends who were talking to me stopped talking to me when I chose to go NC)

I never heard from him and this all went down yesterday.
I am handling it ok I suppose. More disgusted with myself than anything and just tired from not sleeping well.

Thinking somehow he won this round.