Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
My husband gets soo aggrivated at everything I do. Hes not very plesant to be around. He makes me feel like unwelcome company or someone who did something horrible to him. Sometimes I wonder if he is emotionaly abusive. I cant tell if he is treating me a certain way to keep me down and feeling unworthy or if he is" just that way" like he loves to claim. I express myself clearly when I sense hes being disrespectful and refuse to allow him to speak to me a certain way. Hes so gaurded and agressive sounding. Always defensive However, no matter what..He is always right. I cant call out his bs manipulatiin of our conversation without him accusing me of being over dramtic, sensative or making stuff up. He literlly makes me feel guilty and wrong for standing up for myself. He only admits later through text he was wrong but, to me, it feels more like a way to get me to drop the whole situation. Everyday its the same battle and Im losing. He doesnt seem to care he is making feel like crap.
but standing up against emotional
abuse almost never fixes the situation
and more frequently, puts the victim
at risk of increasing abuse, possibly
physical abuse.
I hope you'll consider
finding your nearest
women's center and
making a visit there.
There's often counseling
available there, which
would be very valuable
for you.
Whatever you do,
don't get pregnant.
Abusers seldom
become non-abusive.
That's something to
keep in mind when
you consider what
you want for your
future.
Please take good care.
Sending you hugs
and wishes for
strength and
serenity.