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NewStart4me
NewStart4me
Hi friends , well its my 2nd day at my daughters and i cant stop being sick.....i dont know whether its nerves or my memory is coming back...im getting all these flashbacks of what has happened over the years , thing i had totally forgot about?

but something i remember from when we was away last week was this,....
i was in a queue in a toffee rock shop waiting to be served because i was getting some rock for our grand daughter.
There was a lovely little old lady at the side of me waiting to be served and she was talking to me and i her.........next thing HE says very loudly so everyone heard............' did you see that article in the paper about that man who had a 13 inch willy ' ?????????????
OH.......MY......GOD............talk about embarrassed?
that poor lady didnt know what to do...........and just wanted to crawl under a rock

but ive remembered , hes done something like this a few times.....and really shown me up........

has this happened to you?
beansprout
beansprout
yes, my ex was always doing that to me. We took all our kids to see the house we had just bought for us all to live together, and, he was late - so me and kids were shown round it, upstairs etc. Then my ex appeared and then he was shown round (remember we had already bought this house) I stayed down stairs to answer a few work emails and he calls down stairs 'get up here, we're going to see this as a family' I told him it was 4.30pm on a Friday and I needed to answer the email for work and he told me I had to get my priorities straight. All in front of my son, his son and daughter and the realtor. That was deemed to be a eprfectly normal response to him, and I wasnt allowed to be upset with him
RockinBunny
RockinBunny
Hello :) Yeah, I've had similar... not quite as embarrassing, though!

He's doing it on purpose to get attention, probably because he saw you were having a nice conversation with that lady, and he couldn't bear to see you happy. It sounds harsh, but a narcissist's idea of a party is ruining other people's.

Anything I enjoy, my husband will go in a huff about or try to spoil. My attention is supposed to be on HIM 24/7. If it's not, in his eyes, he needs to 'correct the balance'.

Hope this helps! XXX