I just need my story out there. 

He left me at the end of May. Refusing to really pay for anything I bought. Food. Clothing for the kids. Etc. We started marriage counseling. She identified him as a narcissist with other disorders. She told him he should she a  psychiatrist. He didn't.  Everything was going on my credit card. At the end of September he had a psychotic break. Police looking for him. Orders to commit him. The whole nine yards. His parents got him out of it. But his license to practice medicine was suspended. I filed for divorce. Protective order. He wasn't allowed to see the kids except 2 hrs on Saturdays under supervision. The first part of November he realized I wasn't going to give him the power and control he was demanding. So. He just ran away. Missing persons filed by his parents. He's since turned up here and there sending an occasional text. A phone call to me that he will come back if I bring the children to him. I told him no. But. I'm left with a giant amount of debt and NO money. His parents aren't offering to help. They're too worried about their grown son who is "on a journey with God" to be concerned about their juvenile grandchildren.  He's most likely in a schizophrenic episode. We've seen evidence that he believes people are trying to kill us... Or me and the kids and pin our murder on him. It's why he is on the run. None of it makes any sense. Either his parents are buying his story or they think I'm dumb enough to believe in all of their excuses that my kids and I are his main concern. That a grown man would be so concerned about his family that he would run and hide and leave them without money. No. I think he's punishing me for taking away his power and control. Now he had to pay nothing.  In about a month I'll lose my house. My children and I will be evicted. Family and friends have helped me thru the holidays. And it was such a blessing. But it's time to pay the piper and there really isn't any money. I can get job but it will never be enough to make a dent in this debt. And my hands are tied because we are still married and he's not around to sign any papers. My attroney is proceeding with the divorce but I have no idea how complicated that process will be now. Which equals more money I have to come up with. Because that SOB can't be a grown up and face the truth.