Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
You know, that is how they work, trying to place the blame on us. You know it has nothing to do with you, but you won't be able to make him think it's his fault either. Don't even try to fight about it.
Let him go. Something is up. I'm so sorry for you.