Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
#1 on your list should be;
Is NOT an abuser. All of the other things are wonderful traits but none of them are, if he is an abuser along with them.
Look for those red flags of an abuser the very first thing.
Please, for your happiness and safety.
Sending you tons of support and hugs.
Must not be abusive,
must love respect and value me as an individual.
I know one day at women's group they had a list like this for teenagers, I wonder if I can get a copy and post it here?
It was similar to what you two just listed, kind of a pact not to abuse.
It was neat.
I wonder if I can find that.