Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I actually feel numb to it to.I know that's crazy,but he is such an out of control drunk that I swear I'm use to anything he has to say. But I've been thinking today ,that this is the second time in a month he has told me he will kill me.My reaction is actually no reaction to!!! This crap has driven me insane obviously! I swear I am going to set the boundary lines with him, now I have to before this man does what he say's. Every rime I tell my Attorney what he has done or has said, his reaction is nothing! It's all about the money, I think if he did do it my Att. would probably just say well she did tell me he was mean. Damn the Att. just makes me feel more invaliidated.But again I will call him in the morning to tell him once again.Husband always does this kind of things on the weekend when I couldn't reach the Att. anyway. I will get this divorce over with one way or another, and stop this insane bullying! intimidation! and all of his other crap. Thanks for listen.
If you have any proof of what your husband is saying, give it to the police.
At the 'best' he's being a threatening bully and needs to learn that he can't say those things. At 'worst' he's a violent bully who might do something terrible. You deserve better than that. Draw on the people and processes put in place to protect you, all of those processes and use them.
It's called:
Separation violence
and it's SERIOUS.
People DIE.
Get an advocate from your
local women's center. Go
to the police.
DON'T BECOME A
STATISTIC.
And, oh yeah. . . . .
find a qualified attorney.
Please take good care!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with the others that you should call the police.
Also, hopefully you aren't living with this man--because you shouldn't be around him.
If you commence to communicate only through e-mail with him, then you can have record of his threats...or he will stop making them because he knows they will be recorded. Either way would be better than talking to him verbally.
Like I said, it isn't your responsibility to set boundaries with an abuser, especially if he threatens to kill you.