Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
My daughter has called my ex her dad for the past 2 years and never sees her biological father and now that i have left my ex because of the abuse she is hurting and it seriously pisses me off that not only has he done this to me but to her too! How can i help her? She saw the way he treated me and she knows it was not right but that was still her dad in her eyes.
Sometimes, being a parent is really hard, but we often prevent them having or doing things we know are bad even though they don't. Imagine going to the zoo and your daughter sees a lion, thinks of the Lion King movie and thinks it would be GREAT to give the lion a cuddle. Would you let her do that, because it would upset her if you didn't? Of course not. This is no different. This is your chance to stand strong for her, even though she doesn't yet understand your reasons.
Big hugs to you both.