Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
My ex-boyfriend 1)criticized almost everything about me
2) yelled and screamed at me at times 3)blamed me for almost everything in the relaionship that was wrong 4)constantly talked about other women and flirted with other women 5) told me that I would not stop him from the more than life, and that I needed to dress more sexy and competetive with other women.........6) complained that I was not changing for the better fast enough.........I spent over a year trying and trying and trying to become a perfect beautiful superwoman, I feel like I failed miserably. I just could not take anymore of his bullshit........
then the worst of it all........................when I broke up with him he immediately stopped all contact with me and started to date a whole gaggle of women, he told me he did not want to date me anymore, he wanted to date a new woman he met that he thought was better than me.
Talk about the icing on the cake with the cherry on top! Just when I thought a year of emotional abuse couldn't get worse....... it got worse.
I feel angry, bitter, sad.
I am suffering.
2) yelled and screamed at me at times 3)blamed me for almost everything in the relaionship that was wrong 4)constantly talked about other women and flirted with other women 5) told me that I would not stop him from the more than life, and that I needed to dress more sexy and competetive with other women.........6) complained that I was not changing for the better fast enough.........I spent over a year trying and trying and trying to become a perfect beautiful superwoman, I feel like I failed miserably. I just could not take anymore of his bullshit........
then the worst of it all........................when I broke up with him he immediately stopped all contact with me and started to date a whole gaggle of women, he told me he did not want to date me anymore, he wanted to date a new woman he met that he thought was better than me.
Talk about the icing on the cake with the cherry on top! Just when I thought a year of emotional abuse couldn't get worse....... it got worse.
I feel angry, bitter, sad.
I am suffering.
I'm sorry for your pain.
But congratulations on him being your EX.
Now you can focus on your own inner stuff, like getting to a place of self-regard and self-love. . . . . .
so that when the next jerk comes along, whose goal it is to dominate, control and hurt you ------- you won't be buying what he's selling.
Focus on your well-being. Focus on nurturing and nourishing your self. Focus on YOU.
That'll help you feel better and move on, and then help you pick a better "next."
Best to you. Please take good care!
Ilene
Love, Mil.
OMG, I so hate what he did to you. But more importantely, you need to hate what he did to you. How do you pay him back? By living your life to the fullest and becoming a better (not bitter) person in spite of him. His day is coming.