Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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Kenyah
Kenyah

I am cooking dinner and my husband came in and put sauce that is kind of spicy on the chicken and I didn't want it on the chicken, so he decided to put sauce on 9 pieces of chicken which left me with only 3 because my children don't like hot food like that. I got upset and he said if I get smart with him he is going to smack the dog s*** out of me. I am getting tired of the abuse and disrespect!

BE0312
BE0312
How horrible, I am so sorry... Do you and your children have a safer place to go? Even without physical contact, statements such as that and his behaviors are evidence of mental and emotional abuse. Based on your statement that you are tired of these behaviors, I assume that it is a usual occurrence for his behaviors to be of such disrespect - and on that, you need to find a safer environment for you and your children, that is the first and foremost important task. You're in my prayers.
alone1nbrave2
alone1nbrave2
I'm so sorry. You should seek some help in planning what your options are from a domestic violence/women's shelter/group. They will guide you and counsel you. I found them very helpful with taking the next step for myself mentally, even though I am already out of the house.
You've already determined you're done with being treated that way, next steps are up to you how you proceed & feel comfortable proceeding.
I'm sorry that you were talked to like that. It's not okay.
Maybe even try saying "you know it really hurts my heart when you say things like that to me. remember when you were my safe place? please don't take that away with such hurtful words." Sounds corny typing it but if that's how you feel it may make him think. If he makes fun of you, you know where you stand with him...