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I have been lying about with being done with school to my bf (I guess you could still say bf, though he has broken up with me so I'm not really sure...we still act the same). I am supposed to buy plane tickets for him to come here and us to go back to where he lives because I have not been able to run away on my own.
I am a master's degree student. I told him that I was done last semester and have been lying about it (I felt this was for survival). I feel overcome with guilt and one big reason that I cannot go or buy tickets right now is because of my still being in school (this is the last semester, it's the rest of this month and next month). I know this will make him VERY angry that I have lied about it since November and it is March.... I feel guilty though and I somewhat feel like he deserves to know the truth, but also I know he'll see all of my promises to go there as lies and me "never intending" to go there at all.
What should I do? If you want to know more about my situation, see my other advice post (it's described in detail there).
I am a master's degree student. I told him that I was done last semester and have been lying about it (I felt this was for survival). I feel overcome with guilt and one big reason that I cannot go or buy tickets right now is because of my still being in school (this is the last semester, it's the rest of this month and next month). I know this will make him VERY angry that I have lied about it since November and it is March.... I feel guilty though and I somewhat feel like he deserves to know the truth, but also I know he'll see all of my promises to go there as lies and me "never intending" to go there at all.
What should I do? If you want to know more about my situation, see my other advice post (it's described in detail there).
he has broken up with me
You are broken up. Finished. Done with.
That's it.
Remind him he broke up with you,
say goodbye
and go NO CONTACT.
I feel like being honest about my situation would be better / more respectful. Is this right or would it just make things worse?