So I wrote on here the other day discussing my emotionally abusive boyfriend.This has been a long distance relationship for a few years.He constantly accuses me, fights with me and the list goes on.Basically he makes me feel like the enemy.I want to believe that he will change once the distance is no longer an issue.He blames being away from me to be the root to all our problems.Anyway, I'm supposed to book my flight to Australia soon.I know everyone thinks I shouldn't go but I think I have my bases covered.I got a 3 month leave from work,have a friend staying at my house etc. I feel like I shouldn't go but I also feel like I need closure.I feel like I need to go there just to see if things are better once I'm there. Before all this abuse, I've never been happier with anyone else.I keep telling myself that if he starts to act crazy towards me within those 3 months, I can return home and still have my job waiting for me etc.My question is, do you think that it is possible for him to be better once we are together? Do you think that he can hide his "crazyness" for 3 months and turn on me later? Or do you think that in 3 months I won't be able to get a good idea of how he really is? I just don't know what to do.I'm thinking I should just go and if it starts up again make sure I'm strong enough to come home and never look back.I know relationships are work and me living in a new place alone will be a huge adjustment for me, yet alone if he is emotionally abusive.Can people really change for the better?Could it only be the distance? Sorry to babble on but I'm just so confused.Some insight would be appreciated.Thanks.
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