Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
though I'm sorry for the
situation that has brought
you here.
The problem is not
about technology
but is biological.
Once we attach to someone,
there's an evolutionary
inclination to stay attached.
The good news for you is
that this "relationship" is
so short-lived. (And good
for you, for making that
decision! From what
you've shared, you
spotted some realistic
indicators of a guy
who'd be serious
bad news, in the
longer run.)
Something that's helped
many of us is to find and
work with a counselor
who specializes in
recovery from dysfunctional
relationships. I suggest
that you do some research
and find a therapist who
specializes in helping
people recover from
toxic relationships.
Sending you hugs
and wishes for
healing and
better times.