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He didn't have to, but he opened his elusive e/m account in front of me and then acted like, "oh grate, now your going to get jealous." because he says, he doesn't know how, but for some reason all these Russian mail order brides have gotten his e\m address and his e\m account is flooded with them. He opened one up to show me that they don't know him, they are just advertising themselves. So why show me? I'm not the least bit jealous of this. Obviously he clicked on a web site or they wouldn't know his e\m address. So what, it costs money to order a bride.....like that's going to happen, and it would be like a commitment if you did, yah, that's not going to happen either, so why feel compelled to show me that your pretty sick by wasting time window shopping mail order brides?I know.......I need to re-loose him. Not there yet, just venting.
newrose2013
Wow, just wow!!! He's hoping for a reaction. Sending you hugs
REDOAGAIN
I didn't give him one. I didn't even acknowledge the absurdity that somehow they have he e\m address from out of know where. It's just really not a threat to me, it just makes him look really tacky, and yucky.
maryjan
haha i get messages from russian mail order brides every day and i'm a female! haha
REDOAGAIN
How did you end up getting those? did they really just get your e/m address out of thin air. You would greatly improve my image of him if you gave some credibility to his story.
maryjan
lots of spam yes! They are everywhere.
maryjan
I thought that was what you meant was that he was trying to make you jealous? When it is so common. Sorry if i misunderstood.
DeliAnnem
I think it's more telling that you are still sharing things with each other.
REDOAGAIN
Maryjan, I don't know why he felt compelled to show them to me. I never see his e/m. I think he was trying to get a reaction out of me, and it did, one of thinking he was pretty gross for window shopping them, but if it is common for people to get spammed, that helps me at least not think of him as having gone looking for it. That actually helps me see him in a better light.
Rosenkranz
I get those ads too, interestingly on the account that I used to use for online dating. Hmmm. I abhor men who think of women as a commodity to be bought and sold (and discarded if they are no longer useful/exciting). Big trigger. Is he some kind of big man (or hot commodity himself) that he's getting such trashy spam? What an idiot.
REDOAGAIN
I went to google to see if any info on how they get your e/m address and my post from here showed up on google. I thought this was a privet sight. If any one enters certain key words from one of our posts it displays on google? WTF!!!
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