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The last few days have been rough. I'm not backing down or changing my mind, still moving ahead with the divorce regardless of what stbx says to friends and family, how he tries to make things more difficult for me and the girls because of his selfishness...
Anyway, I've been listening to a lot of Beyonce and Christina Aguilera - they are very empowering. Here's a couple I'd like to share..
Survivor by Destiny's Child
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4OOum4Vm-M
Fighter by Christina Aguilera
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_tj4HqBn6k
Hugs friends,
Anyway, I've been listening to a lot of Beyonce and Christina Aguilera - they are very empowering. Here's a couple I'd like to share..
Survivor by Destiny's Child
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4OOum4Vm-M
Fighter by Christina Aguilera
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_tj4HqBn6k
Hugs friends,
I also listened to So What by Pink all the time. Even tho not al of the lyrics didn't fit, the choruses did. , even if not all the words fit. I especially like the last two choruses. The first one is so true...he was never ever there.
[Chorus]
You weren't there,
You never were,
You want it all,
But that's not fair,
I gave you life,
I gave my all,
You weren't there,
You let me fall.
[Chorus]
No, no, no, no
I don't want you tonight,
You weren't there,
I'm gonna show you tonight,
I'm alright,
I'm just fine,
And you're a tool,
So, so what,
I am a rock star,
I got my rock moves,
And I don't want you tonight!
Ba da da da da da
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9MwxdtzrvA
Rock on everyone!!!
Yes those parts of So What are so fitting!
It's hard for me to listen to Pink bc stbx had said he thinks of us when he hears "Try".... He says we're not broken, just bent....
I'm like yeah.... Maybe 4 years ago!
Stronger by Sara Evans
Hurry up and slow me down Sara Evans
Landslide by Stevie Nicks
Sorry, never figured out how to link you tube.
Those are some great songs. I especially like the 2 by Sara Evans. Thanks for sharing.
Sending healing thoughts your way,
Hugs,
Brave by Sara Barrellis
Mine are:
Somewhere I belong by Linkin Park
Freak-by Days of the New
Arleady Gone by the Eagles.
Great Idea Not!
Martin
"Don't go crying to your mama 'cause you're on your own in the real world."
I have not been on my own for 39 yrs except for a brief stay in a women's shelter with my young kids and subsequent apartment 33 years ago. Now I am a 59 yr old single grandparent of a 12.5 yr old granddaughter and 9 yr old grandson. So I feel sorry for myself sometimes....But, then I sing this song! If I hear this song and "Happy" at least once a day, I feel OK.
1, It is during the worse time of your life that you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you.
2. Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Maybe you have marked yourself down. It's YOU who tells people what your worth is. Get off the clearance rack and get behind the glass where they keep the valuables. Author Unknown