Is it hard for any of you to realize they are abusers?? I know what he is doing is wrong, but its hard for me to actually realize and call him an abuser. There are nice things about him, its like he is a good person on the inside but his actions say differently. Sometimes he can be really nice and loving. But other times he is too much to handle!! Do any of you want to make excuses for the person that abuses you?? Does it matter why they do it... or are they abusers no matter what they're reasons are??
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