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police were called public disturbance by my bf

emilyam
emilyam
My boyfriend went through my phone
Then yelled at me for talking to other guys
And was horrible to me and scared me. :( I felt scared so
Went down and stayed in the reception
Calling my mum
I was shaken and was shaking
Then he came down and was creating a
Public disturbance
The police were called!
kathywonders
kathywonders
Thats a horrible experience. I hope he is now your ex. He is jealous, controlling and unpredictable. Dont tolerate being treated this way.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I look at it as a good thing that the police were called. It means people were concerned for someone's safety. And, it sounds like you should be concerned for your safety. This is your boyfriend, not your spouse. You see the flags waving; please take notice. It's so much easier to leave an uncommitted relationship (one without a marriage certificate). Abusers step up their game when their current tactics stop working. Mine did....went from verbal assault to hitting me with objects, tripping me, grabbing my face. You deserve better, and so did I, which is why I kicked him out, and I was married to him.
IleneW
IleneW
Hon ----

When we feel scared,
it's our intelligence
trying to get our
attention.

Please don't ignore
what your inner knowing
is telling you.

His violating your phone,
his yelling,
his scaring you
and scaring others. . . . . .

yes. . . .

the flags are waving.

DON'T IGNORE
the WARNING SIGNS!!!!!!!

Please stay safe.

Take good care.