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mildred71
mildred71
Things my ex-emotional abuser boyfriend said to me: 1.)I am miserable in this relationship
2.)My life has become unmanageable because you left the sponge in the sink. 3.)You need to get your own apartment, you can't live with me. 4) I want to date other people. 5.) It is not my fault I get so angry at you, it is your fault for making me feel so angry. 6.) You need to dress more sexy and competetive with other women 7.) You need to act more engaging in public whether you feel like it or not.
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blackdog999
blackdog999
I think I like the one about the sponge the best.....I mean seriously you left the sponge in the sink? Its no wonder the man hurt you...how could he not ?
leonii
leonii
honest-the sponge!you should of shoved it up his.........where was this guy coming from.yeah-maybe you should have dressed more provocative and that would of attracted another man into your life.a nice one.see- that is what abusers do.they grasp at anything to demoralize you.there really wasnt anything wrong with you-there never is with any of us-but he was coming up with anything to make you feel bad-for that gave him power and control.sorry-that's awful-even the smallest thing said is hurtful.even something as small as a sponge,really though,the things we have to hear from these disturbed individuals.and even though the sponge in the sink sounds like a silly thing to bitch about-they wont shut up about it.going on for hours.having a big blowout over nothing.been there.you try your best to have a nice day!
Tamehau
Tamehau
I would just hand him a cup and tell him to cry you a cupful. He may as well have been hitting you. Big Jerk!

I am so glad that you are out from that Mil. You deserve so much more that that crap. He is lucky that you did not shove that sponge where the sun don't shine.
whiskeytangofoxtrot
whiskeytangofoxtrot
Im exhausted

Because I have a Jay-o-Bee! (job) Everything is always because of his job.

Sure (his way of telling me he dislikes the situation but will do it anyway. Its all he ever says)

Did you know your beautiful? (one of his fav. Games)

Are you happy? (with sad eyes and voice, his response to anything I want to do that involves other socialization) He feels marriage means no social life for me

Hows the Farm? (his pissy, snide remark anytime I am on the computer Farmville(claims Im ignoring him))

*cricket, cricket* Absolute silence. His most powerful language, acts like he doesnt hear me or straight up is ignoring me.