So, my hub tells me he is working late(car repair) He stays out all night, comes home at 5:00am. He knocks on my door(yeah, he won't sleep w/ me) to tell me at 5:00am that he had come home at 2:00am. I said no you did'nt cuz I got up at 2:00am and you were'nt here. He said yes I was. well, no he was'nt. then he left again at 5:00am. His shop does'nt open until 8:00am and it's a 30 mile ride.He makes sure not to come home that night until nearly bed time. Up the next morning to take the kid to the parade and don't come home until nearly bedtime and neither of them will speak to me. Told me earlier in the day that it is all in my head. This after I found the strip club matches.So, now both of them are angry with me. Daughter is almost 13 years old and a real daddy's girl. He lies to her and, well, everyone. He has told her he's a Vietnam veteran, no he was dishonorably discharged. He told her he was a World champion race car driver--uh no, never. He promises her things--like the coupon he gave her 3 years ago for Christmas, for 3 months of training for her horse--never keeps his promises and still she adores him and is hateful towards me, just like him. He is very angry at me-- for how dare I not believe his every story.Now I get the silent treatment for God knows how long and she is just going to get angrier. I am living in a HELL. WTH does this mean....?