Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I dont understand why my boyfriend of seven years who mentally abuses me often, everyother day would want to be wtih me. if im so horrible, rotten, and a cunt a bitch and he tell sme to go die. then why when i break up with him wont he acccept it and move on? why cant he move on. why does he want to be with me yet treats me so awful. i cant seem to understand it......i tried to let it go last night and he was nice for ten minutes than after taht he bagan to lash out on me again, started callin gme a dirty whore etc. just because i wouldnt le thim over bc i wanted to sleep i had to getup at 6 AM. :( help.
He needs a victim.
That's why he attempts
to be nice for as long as
ten minutes.
If you escape, he has to
find and capture another.
That's a lot of inconvenience
for him. Much easier to
keep control over You.
That's my opinion.
Abuse WILL kill you.
If it doesn't actually
kill you physically,
it WILL kill you
emotionally
and spiritually.
I have a better question for you.
Why on earth would you want to be with someone who spoke to you like that? WHY??
If you haven't started journaling I suggest you start now. write down everything he says to you and how it makes you feel. Then everytimg you miss him pull it out and remember very clearly how he treated you.
Be free from this while you can.
Hugs
make it easy
for his victim
to leave.
An abuser who knows
he's at risk of his victim
escaping
will say and do
ANYTHING
to keep that from happening.
If you want to be free
you'll have to
dig your own
way out.
It's worth it.