Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I broke my 2 1/2 months of no contact. My ex talked to me on the phone a few times, and then slept with me. After we slep together, immediately
after, he told me that he wanted to date other people and just be
friends with me. at this point I was so heartbroken, that I acted like I
wanted to just be friends with him. over the past week I have called him randomly and found out that he is going out with a new girl. He says things about her like, she has ups and downs, theres things that are good about her, and things that he's concerned about.
I definitely reccommend no contact. My heart was broken into a million
pieces, and now it is just more broken.....I will have to let go of him,
to let my heart repair.
after, he told me that he wanted to date other people and just be
friends with me. at this point I was so heartbroken, that I acted like I
wanted to just be friends with him. over the past week I have called him randomly and found out that he is going out with a new girl. He says things about her like, she has ups and downs, theres things that are good about her, and things that he's concerned about.
I definitely reccommend no contact. My heart was broken into a million
pieces, and now it is just more broken.....I will have to let go of him,
to let my heart repair.
If it's any consolation, the longer you have no contact the better you will feel. I'm still working on my own healing and just want to say be gentle with yourself, give yourself plenty of time and find a really good therapist.
Hugs!!!
You've done what many of us have, take them back for whatever reason, hoping for the best, and it's so disappointing when that isn't the outcome.
It was a mistake, you realize it...try your best to brush yourself off and be very, very kind to yourself from here on out, part of which is enforcing strict NC.
(hugs)
You deserve better!!!