Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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Hello DS Fam! I left the psychopath boyfriend and got therapy. Doing much better and have been NC for almost 2 years. I know we can't get rid of these types of people, but I am dealing with another is. My female cousin I grew up with is a vicious, conniving sociopath. Now that I am on to her, I put distance between us and have set boundaries. Her husband passed away and I gave her and her 8 children my apartment. My son and I moved elsewhere. She couldn't pay her phone bill so I added 6 lines onto my account with her. She wants to get herself and all of her children new phones. I told her she could not because when this contract is up in April, she has to find another way. Many things have happened in between. Come to find out, she went behind my back with my information and upgraded her line. That means she signed up for another 2 year contract. I told her when April comes she must buy that one out. All lines have to go. She is a very dangerous type. Very sneaky and she has a lot of people in the family confused, especially my mother. This has caused a strain on my own relationship with mom. Now she is up to new tricks. She has gone to my FB page and sent friend requests to all my friends. The ones that have accepted, she is sending requests to all of their friends. Anytime she wants to send me a subliminal message, she tags my friends. Everyone is calling me asking what is wrong with her and telling me she is crazy. Yesterday, was the straw that broke the camels back. My best friend in Georgia called to tell me, one of her cousins posted something and she noticed she liked it. This is odd because my cousin doesn't know this girl. When she looked, she noticed they have 107 mutual friends. She is even friends with a long lost cousin's uncle of my best friend that lives in Louisiana! I feel like I am going to have a rage attack on her. I just want to go about this the right way. Please tell me how you would handle this? Maybe I am too emotional. Thanks and I love coming here, because you all get it. Xoxo
I guess I don't understand...
But what to do? Call the cell provider and say that there's been a fraudulent activity on the account and close it.
Then, give her notice to move out.
Sever all contact.
Block her from FB and then tell all your friends that you plan to get a new account and ask them ALL to block your cousin.
That should take care of most of it.
Then get into CODA to discover how you let her do this to you.
Hugs.
You must sever all ties to this woman. It may cost you some money, but end the contract with the cell phone provider NOW. Don't wait until April.
Explain that you did not agree to the 2-year contract and request help in proceeding with your cousin. She is clearly dishonest and bordering criminality. She has to get out of your life. You've been through enough.
Best of luck to you.