Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
If she can't control and manipulate you, she gets freaked, insecure and really mean. This is a narcicist. If they can't have their own way, and they think they are number one, and if you don't deliver and agree, they will make yor life miserable and have everyone thinking it is you, not her, so therefore they will all think terribe things about you.
She's nice to those patients because it makes her look good. She has power over those poor elderly patients, and they need her. I'm sure she does do a good job looking after them, but it's more about her than it is about those patients. Everyone is watching her and she loves it. Best thing you can do, it avoid her.
He was the loser in the end.