Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
When I was little my youger sister has always been mean to me. She still is. She yells at me. Has taken over my mom an dads will. She is a alcohol. She's deviorced. She beat me up hard when I was a teen. She ignores my calls but I still care about her. She never TV helps my parents. She forgets me at christmas an birthdays. Calls other girls her sisters. She is horrible, she hss said things bad about me to other people. But I still need a sister. I long for a close relationship with her. And I keep trying, why!
and that sibling abused
me.
As much as I grieved
not having even one
loving sibling, I decided
(for myself), that I chose
to not have a toxic, abusive
person in my life, even if
that person was genetically
related to me.
What I need in my life
are people who
don't abuse me.
If none of those
people are related
genetically, so be it.
This is what I chose
for myself.
No one can tell you
what you will chose
for YOUR self.
What I can tell you is
that it's unlikely that
your sister will ever
relate to you in the
loving, caring way
you would wish for.
That's a very sad thing.
Have you ever participated
in any kind of counseling
or therapy? If not, let me
just say that it's helped
many of us here. I suggest
this not because I'm saying
that there's anything wrong
with You. Just that when we
come from a dysfunctional
family of origin, it can help
us sort things out and also
make ourself stronger.
I hope you'll take good
care of yourself.
Sending you hugs
and wishes for
whatever you
desire most
in your life.