Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
It's so much to write on this subject..My whole childhood in fact. It would take hours of therapy. It's hard to jot down the whole story in a few lines but I really need support..
Both my parents treat me kinda badly. Mom's always calling me names, she is insane, unfit as a mom and all that jazz..Dad is always acting as if he were perfect and I were a bloody bug, someone he despises..He is always criticizing the way i dress, the way I talk. They are separated but living in the same house, so my role is to cover the gap.
They help me financially because I don't have a job. It sucks. I still go to college, but still, most of the people my age(I'm 24!!) are able to sustain themselves..
So I feel guilty and ashamed and a looser.
It's frustrating. People tell me I should get a job, be independent and move out, but I still have two years of college. Part time jobs here are 6 hours so it's kinda difficult. Plus I'm a disaster in interviews.
I guess I need some support because the emotional toil is kinda huge right now..Thanks...
Both my parents treat me kinda badly. Mom's always calling me names, she is insane, unfit as a mom and all that jazz..Dad is always acting as if he were perfect and I were a bloody bug, someone he despises..He is always criticizing the way i dress, the way I talk. They are separated but living in the same house, so my role is to cover the gap.
They help me financially because I don't have a job. It sucks. I still go to college, but still, most of the people my age(I'm 24!!) are able to sustain themselves..
So I feel guilty and ashamed and a looser.
It's frustrating. People tell me I should get a job, be independent and move out, but I still have two years of college. Part time jobs here are 6 hours so it's kinda difficult. Plus I'm a disaster in interviews.
I guess I need some support because the emotional toil is kinda huge right now..Thanks...
What I try to hold on to in those moments is that if I was this horrible person she is trying to make me believe I am then why would I have a best friend who loves me as her sister? Why would I have a boyfriend who would do anything for me?
You really just have to block them out and try to hold on to thoughts like that. They criticize you because they don't like themselves.
If you need some one to talk to feel free to message me. I really do know what it's like to be raised by a mom who should never have had a child. Plus my mom is insane too. Seriously, if some one saw how she acted she would've been committed.
I hope things pan out for you, and just practice not caring about their opinion and working on yourself :)