thats a bit strange that he has the address for this account! Can you block him from the account? As for not giving up, he will, but only when he is ready unfortunately, or finds another victim!

Ugh!! How gross and creepy (I agree!).

If you do an Internet search for your name (and all the different combinations that he would know), does the email address come up anywhere? Does he know any of your clients?

Could you change the address and let your clients know?

I agree with beansprout - block him from that address too ... and/or even report him to the email provider.

Do you have a restraining order re contact? That might be a good idea if you are up for it. The contacts don't have to necessarily be overtly threatening .... depending on where you are, I guess. In some states/countries you can get a civil harassment order if you say "stop contacting me" and the person doesn't.

Good luck!

I am so sorry this is happening.
I agree with the first 2 posters. Try and find out if there isn't some way to get rid of him. Why do they have to be so darn horrible??!!!!!

It's time to start
documenting his
attempts at contacts.

When you have a bunch
documented, you take
your documentation
and file a police report
so that you can be
protected from his
STALKING.

Good advice! I just woke up and found a message on my phone from a different number. I think he must have gone through my phone and computer sometime while we were still seeing each other. None the messages are overly threatening... more of neener, neener, I can always find you. They all have contained the same kind of message, asking how I have been, why I am blocking him, ect.

I agree. It is time to start documenting.

They can be so totally relentless!!! Don't let him suck you in! I am going through it too and have to shut down text app's and block on email. The only thing I have left is house phone so if he calls I will have to just hit end call because I don't want to change my home phone. But my son will watch the phone for me and if its him he will hit end call so I don't make any mistakes. My son is even through with him. So hang in there I know its frustrating for me its making me sick because I really feel like I can't stand him anymore. I loath him! I bet you feel similar so hang in there and do one day at a time delete the stupid message and move on to better things!

First and foremost, take your computer to a reputable place & have them check it for tracking software!!!!!

After you do that, then change all your passwords & get a new email account that you name something so not like you. That way he wouldn't be able to guess the new name.

Ask your phone service provider to change your number b/c he is stalking you. Then only give the number out to those you absolutely trust.

And as Ilene said, document, document, document. I would go immediately to the police and ask what the stalking laws are & what you need in order to press charges. Forewarned is forearmed!