Yes I have. I decided to sign up for her NARP modules and I am so glad I did. I feel better and I plan on continuing with them.

I checked her out today and got her two introductory ebooks. A lot of the material she covers (I read them both immediately lol) is familiar to me. But I like that she emphasizes that recovery means focusing on us and not on them. And that she lists many of the characteristics we have that got us in this mess in the first place and that we must address to recover. I think she's on to something because I still only attract such men.

Especially she states basically that you can't expect someone to give you love and security and validation. That has to come from inside. I realize (again) that that's what I've been seeking and it's just not working.

Another thing I learned that I had not heard before was the concept of the "altrustic narcissist". That explained the weird dynamic that I have experienced with a couple of men and seemed really "off" at the time, but I couldn't put my finger on why generosity creeped me out.

She has a ton of free material, which I plan on exploring further. Thanks for bringing up the topic!

Rosenkranz, I did the same thing. I explored her youtube videos as well as reading her articles first to make sure that her knowledge was legit. Therefore, It took me some time to take the plunge.

I mean, she has zero credentials. But when I have mentioned to a handful of psychologists that my ex-husband is narcissistic, I have been met with a blank stare or had it brushed off. She really seems to get it and what she says makes a lot of intuitive sense to me.

Another source I like is spartanlifecoach. There are also some awesome videos on narcissism by begood4000 on youtube that are super informative.

I love that we have the internet! It was a support group like this that helped me out of my marriage. If not for that, I shudder to think what kind of condition I would be in by now!

I have not, but I have a good friend who is currently going through the worse divorce ever with a monstrous narcissist (they're in court right now because he's made death threats...in front of the police even) & she has done it & said it was fantastic.

i follow her and did the webinar, fantastic results

Thanks for the thumbs ups! I am trying to get through the material. I have to read it slowly for it to sink in. I read in depth about the concept of altruistic narcissism b/c that is exactly my husband. And he's doing it now, and it's what has me second guessing myself. Because he's only showing me the altruistic stuff now, since we separated. But it helped me understand what's going on a lot better.

I will continue with her program!

I'm a clinical psychologist, and I think that she is absolutely brilliant. I actually recommend some of her material to clients. She hits the nail on the head with everything. She sometimes has a warm-and-fuzzy style (i.e. like on her website - like the buttlerfly images), which doesn't appeal to me, but the content of her videos and blog write-ups is just brilliant. She's very, very intellectual and heady, which might sound unappealing and it can take awhile to really grasp the complex themes of what she's saying - but she's really, really driving home the psychology of what's going on for people when they gravitate toward and stay with narcissists, and once that settles in for people, I think it's most life-changing.

I was abused verbally and physically

I'm thinking about subscribing to her materials this weekend. A part of me worries that I won't get through the materials because it will be so emotionally draining. I know that's what it's going to take though.