Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Things have berm relatively peaceful in my house for a couple of weeks, of course I've been sick but I will take what I can get:) Today was my day off, as it always is, but our youngest had a therapy appointment (he thought it was a dr appointment as therapy is a no-no in our family), new puppy had a vet visit, and I had to take nephew to his pep rally tonight since my sis had to work. H knew all of this. I finally got home at 6:50 tonight (some day "off"), and he was home, hooking up his trailer as he bought another car last night (won't even go there as it's irrelevant at this point). I'm back in MY car (another long story).
Anyway, I walked over when I get here and try to talk to him, except he immediately starts talking over me whining about how I spent all day worrying about everyone else. His new car needed to go through emissions and I couldn't even be bothered to help him out....as usual. Of course, he never once mentioned emissions, guess I'm supposed to be psychic, but when I mentioned that to him I'm an f ing idiot, of course the car had to go through emissions. I finally just walked away and he left. Of course I'm sure this isn't over, but....
Anyway, funny thing is I had just been thinking about how done I am with this crap. I think, think, think I may have found a place cheap enough for me to afford. It's not in a neighborhood I really want to live in, but it'll do and it is in our school district, plus LOTS of neighbors (town homes). Please pray for me.
Anyway, I walked over when I get here and try to talk to him, except he immediately starts talking over me whining about how I spent all day worrying about everyone else. His new car needed to go through emissions and I couldn't even be bothered to help him out....as usual. Of course, he never once mentioned emissions, guess I'm supposed to be psychic, but when I mentioned that to him I'm an f ing idiot, of course the car had to go through emissions. I finally just walked away and he left. Of course I'm sure this isn't over, but....
Anyway, funny thing is I had just been thinking about how done I am with this crap. I think, think, think I may have found a place cheap enough for me to afford. It's not in a neighborhood I really want to live in, but it'll do and it is in our school district, plus LOTS of neighbors (town homes). Please pray for me.
Don't you love it when you're supposed to be psychic? One of my abusers literally came out screaming at me because I dared to knock on his door while he was on the phone! He screamed at me for 15 min straight over it, without a peep from me, then went in the house and locked me out. Nutcases.
I wish you the best.
I think we all reach a point where where we live doesn't matter anymore. ANYTHING is better than living with the abuse. Somehow we find a way to make it work.
Now, coming home (and it really is home) and hearing nothing.....no noise.....is indescribable. I wish you the same peace!
You probably will be better off anywhere than living with him. He`s a nasty piece of work, and you and your kids deserve an infinitely better life than that.
Sending huge hugs xxx