Finally got settled in AZ with out my abuser. He is back east. Going to counseling at Domestic Violence Center. Individual and group therapy and finally doing OK. He has tried the honeymoon talk a time or two but I am learning about boundaries and the power wheel and 2 people have to have equal power in a relationship. Right now I am ok, there are worse things than being lonely. I got a volunteer job and a new puppy and have a great support system here of old dear friends and family. There is hope. All of you are in my thoughts. If you ever find the strength look up your local Domestic Violence agency.
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