Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
So I contacted my ex to give me 60 bucks i paid for our last phone bill together and it turned into this huge thing that ended in him saying "thanks for reminding me how much better of I am better of without you" am I am wondering is he so delusional to really think that? I supposed him for the three months we were living in a house together before I asked him to leave. And he is the one that's better off without me?! Man that just really got to me and I needed to vent because I was nothing but loyal to him. Meanwhile he was going on craigslist to find men and women to sleep with. I'm like...wtf. what goes on in these delusional peoples heads to think they are in the right and I'm the one that fucked up his world? He refused to pay me the money he owes me too. Anyway, needed to vent. Thanks for reading.
through that.
Your meeting with him
was just him "doin' his
thing."
And that's what you
could always expect.
Please put your focus
on your self-care.
Doing that has at least
two benefits. The first,
obviously, is you reap
the initial benefit of
taking good care
of yourself.
The second is that
with your focus on
taking care of yourself,
you're not focusing on
someone who is
constantly
mistreating you
and pouring your
precious and finite
time and energy
into someone who
is NOT benefiting
you, even if they
claim to love you.
In facr, they're actually
MIStreating you ----
in essence causing
you to drain your
energy away TWICE. . . .
the first by investing
it into someone who
mistreats you and
second. . . .
having it further drained
away by being abused.
Put your energy
into YOU!
Sending you hugs
and wishes for
better days.