So after contacting the last ex abuser in order to come get his riding mower from my property by text, recieving a sketchy text back about when, then having to set boundaries and put a time limit on him to do so in which he ended up getting the mower within the time frame without a big hassle and avoided contact, I figured we were kaput, done, finished. He had not contacted me in anyway nor I him in over 2 weeks.
I do not have him as a friend on facebook, nor any of his friends that I am aware of. I also have my settings set that only my friends can see my posts.
Anyway, last night I am sitting and trying to relax and watch T.V. after a weekend of being sick and I see my phone light up. I had it turned down so I can rest. I remembered I had it turned down all the way to vibrate. I checked the number and it showed REJECT. It was his number.
He had called and not left a voice mail..hmm?
I know this is not healthy for me, but I know who his ex his and he went back to her when we did not work out..I had checked her facebook page and noticed she had a bunch of new friends, most single men her age.
Just added. :)
I figure this..she got tired of his crap and walked. So he is dialing up the "standbys". Unfortunately for him, this "standby" did not answer as she is on to his game now.
Just isn't it odd how they think they can just come in and out of your world?