My husband seems to think everything I do is wrong. Or at least that is what comes out of his mouth. He can never seem to find the things that I am doing right and comment on those things. It really bothers me...wouldn't it bother you if every time you turn around...there is someone telling you you are doing something wrong?? For example... I do the laundry once a week and he always complains that he never gets the right matches for his socks...as if I have any control over that!! I check the washer and the dryer every time I do the laundry to make sure I haven't left any behind...but he has to add in that every roman he has been with before has never lost as many socks as when I do the laundry. I have tried go explain to him that I check both the washer and dryer very carefully to make sure that I haven't left any behind. But that is just the tip of the iceberg!! He also gets mad at me because I don't want to get my drivers license!! There are so many more to list, but not enough time to list them all. It is important to note that I do all the cooking and Laundry. I clean the house as much as I can but with 2 dogs and my husband it is a lot of effort!! He rags on me about that too...how I don't keep the house clean enough!!

What do I do?? Someone ease help!! And don't say ask him to help me because I know he won't!!

He also had what we term as an emotional affair about 4 years ago. I'm still not sure I am over that yet...though I have said that I have forgiven him...I don't feel thatt I am ready to forget about it!!

Any help would be appreciated as I feel like I am all alone and just swallowing his words!!