Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
So in a week we are having a big party with tons of guests. It doesn't seem like a good idea to end things just yet. However, because of where I'm at I think I may end it a few days after the party before the holidays are in full swing. Is this an good idea? Or rather is it best of all bad options?
One other thing you don`t have to do if you don`t want to is end it face to face. You could get yourself out without her knowing. Many people find this safer with abusers involved. With any other person, it would be respectful to end it face to face, but abusers can turn volatile if they realise they are losing you. And when someone has hurt you like this, you don`t owe them anything.
I wish you all the best with your plans, and we are always here to support you during the process :)
also, parties don't matter, the holidays don't matter, nothing really matters, when you think about it. especially compared to something really important, like, say, you living the life filled with the happiness you deserve. i think you should run toward that life as soon as you can so you can enjoy it as long as possible.
parties. . . . .
holidays. . . . . . .
anything other than
what works in your
own best interests
is like
rearranging deck chairs
on the Titanic.
Do what
WORKS FOR YOU!!!!!!!!