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First, I want to say thank you to Far and Away for posting the link to this website (onemomsbattle.com) on another post. I immediately clicked over there and loved the site. I found this post when I was reading through "If you give a narcissist a muffin" and thought all of you might enjoy it. It is SO true!!!!!! So here it is, and the link that Far and Away shared again is onemomsbattle.com. Thank you again!!
What Would a Narcissist do if you Gave Him a Muffin?
If you give a Narcissist a muffin
Hell ask why you didnt give him yours too
Because you dont really deserve a muffin
And you should already know he is extra hungry this morning
But he doesnt really want to eat either one of the muffins
Because you didnt buy them from the best muffin shop in town
And how dare you, because you should have driven ten miles
To get him the muffin he would have wanted in the first place
Rather than do what you did when you snuck out of the house early this morning
To make a trip to the grocery store, to bring home the muffins just for a surprise
But the muffins you chose were wrong
And you are stupid
And now hes late for work
Because he had to take time once again to loudly remind you
That you did not make the extra effort to do what he would have wanted
Which you better remember to do next time
Or he will be really angry
And by the way, he is still hungry but now he has to leave
And this is all your fault
Because he never really wanted a muffin in the first place
He wanted eggs
But it was all just a game to see if he could manipulate you
Into giving your muffin to him
Which you did
Because it was just easier
(Breathe)
And now he left
But what just happened?
(Breathe again)
Its finally quiet and you realize you are still very hungry
And even though he said that doesnt matter because your needs dont count
They do
And you count too
So next time, when you think you want a muffin
And go out of your way to try and do something nice for a Narcissist
(Which you already know will probably end up being wrong even though you had very good intentions)
Do something nice for yourself instead
Sneak out and get just one muffin
Because YOU deserve it
Or better yet, get a doughnut
Muffins are overrated
Stay Strong
Smile : )
And Enjoy!
What Would a Narcissist do if you Gave Him a Muffin?
If you give a Narcissist a muffin
Hell ask why you didnt give him yours too
Because you dont really deserve a muffin
And you should already know he is extra hungry this morning
But he doesnt really want to eat either one of the muffins
Because you didnt buy them from the best muffin shop in town
And how dare you, because you should have driven ten miles
To get him the muffin he would have wanted in the first place
Rather than do what you did when you snuck out of the house early this morning
To make a trip to the grocery store, to bring home the muffins just for a surprise
But the muffins you chose were wrong
And you are stupid
And now hes late for work
Because he had to take time once again to loudly remind you
That you did not make the extra effort to do what he would have wanted
Which you better remember to do next time
Or he will be really angry
And by the way, he is still hungry but now he has to leave
And this is all your fault
Because he never really wanted a muffin in the first place
He wanted eggs
But it was all just a game to see if he could manipulate you
Into giving your muffin to him
Which you did
Because it was just easier
(Breathe)
And now he left
But what just happened?
(Breathe again)
Its finally quiet and you realize you are still very hungry
And even though he said that doesnt matter because your needs dont count
They do
And you count too
So next time, when you think you want a muffin
And go out of your way to try and do something nice for a Narcissist
(Which you already know will probably end up being wrong even though you had very good intentions)
Do something nice for yourself instead
Sneak out and get just one muffin
Because YOU deserve it
Or better yet, get a doughnut
Muffins are overrated
Stay Strong
Smile : )
And Enjoy!
Muffins, doughnuts and all the nice things for ourselves and none for the abusers who can't ever be pleased. ;)
How many times has this actually happened to me? You don't want to know :)
If you gave ME a muffin, you would be my favourite person, aww! I can cope without a doughnut ;) xx
What I love about this woman is that she's trying to make a change in the family court system, or at least for a broader awareness about personality disorders and the havoc these people can cause before, during and after divorce. She has already written one book and is starting another. AND she is remarried. :-)
This stood out to me regarding my ex. The whole expectation from me.
He sometimes used to tell me how he felt (usually down in the dumps) and if I didn't respond in the right way or give him advice that he wanted he'd literally complain that I wasn't doing it right, haha what?
He'd say "you never tell me everything is going to be alright do you!" After I'd been sitting there all night trying to give him some helpful advice and feed back and something I felt would be an answer, and woe be tide me if I gave him a solution to his problems when he wasn't looking for a solution, he wanted to hold into it and be in self pity, because that's when I'd get critised for not saying what it wa he wanted me to say!
OMG it's so exhausting being around a narcissist
a kind if vampire. . . .
a being that requires
the annihilation of
all others
to continue to exist.