Tell me about it... I actually have thought the same thing occasionally!

Sorry you are sad :( (((HUGS))) xxx

Same here.

Hahahahahaha. I do wonder if there are more than one or two good men. Oops, I know there are more than that. There are more than that here on this forum. It's just we don't meet them in our lives.

Before you love anyone or anything else you need to spend that love on yourself. Spoil yourself, do things you love to do even if it is reading a good book, watching a movie, taking a walk, or going shopping.
You are worth it!!!! I have found I love my own company where I can do anything I want to do, when I want to do it.
I hope you have a lot of terrific days ahead.

Actually, abuse exists among the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender population as well.

So true, fortress. I'd venture that it occurs even more. There seems to be more drama going on in those relationships.

Rose

So sorry you had a bad day. Take some time for you like was said. You deserve it. :)

I have not witnessed there is more drama in lesbian relationships. My grown daughter has been very successfully raising her daughter from a previous marriage in one for 10 years. But I have only seen a few of these relationships up close. I imagine there is about an equal ammount of drama. No...seeing my daughter's relationship, I imagine there is less (being honest) but I know this isn't reality. LGBT people here come here, too, in shreds.

I can say that I've seen those types of relationships up close for several years because close family members of mine are LGBT. Drama comes no matter what type of relationship you have. It depends on the two people involved and if one is someone who is abusive - which I've seen - you can get the same result. Bottom line take care of you and set the tone early in your relationship so your partner knows what to expect...if they don't learn from that then they are not the one.

I read some study somewhere (I can't remember at this time) that claimed a higher percentage of emotional abuse in lesbian relationships than all others. The numbers aren't really what matters so much, it just matters that the risk is there no matter what. I can definitely say that my own same-gender long-term relationships were very much filled with deceit, but that was just those girls. I do have two close friends in a lesbian relationship that has been going awesome for about five years now, so there's that, too.

You don't need to love anyone but you if you don't want to. But to truly love anyone or anything else in a healthy manner, you do at least need to fully love you. The more you're into you, the less likely you are to become codependent and put up with any garbage that crosses the line.

You know lesbians get hurt too, they cheat on each other, they beat the crap out of each other,, sorry you were having a bad day at the time, how are you feeling today??? My thoughts are with you girl.

I think that a convent is looking good right about now.

Little better today,t hanks everyone...and I know, that was an ignorant way of phrasing it...

It wasn't ignorant. I'm pretty sure it's something every heterosexual lady that has been through hell with a man thinks at some point. Heck, I often ask myself if it's possible to force myself into asexuality!